Monday, July 19, 2010

When a Loved One Commits Suicide

Suicides are nearly twice as common as homicides, says Indiana University professor of psychology John McIntosh. He’s an expert in suicide prevention, and offers insight into people who kill themselves, suicide notes, social isolation, and feelings of grief.

Signs of Suicide RiskThe effects of suicide are similar to the effects of any sudden loss: shock, disbelief, and feelings of anger or guilt. Searching for answers is common when people kill themselves.

What to Say to the Survivors of Suicide

McIntosh offers suggestions for what to say and do when someone has lost a loved one to suicide.

“Tell them you are sorry for their loss, give them instrumental support with their daily needs, and don't dwell exclusively on the way that their loved one died. Recognize that they may feel very sensitive about the circumstances and try to avoid platitudes like, 'I know how you feel,' if you haven't experienced the same situation," he said.



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